Sunday, January 28, 2018

Because I Said So-John Rosemond

Salam..

Mak Long dengar ni .https://youtu.be/ItjK40BJ5oA

Menarik pandangan seorang psikologist John Rosemond berkaitan gaya keibubapaan. Antaranya dia tak setuju dgn gaya keibubapaan sekarang. Dia bercakap dalam konteks permasalahan di Amerika dan berpendapat ibu bapa sudah hilang ketegasan ..ie authority dan layan anak2 macam boss. John Rosemond berpendapat anak patuh kepada ibu bapa secara alami.Dia juga percaya org amerika perlu kembali pada ajaran agama dalam mendidik anak.

Interesting...Parenting Advice From John Rosemond when giving instructions

1. Do not stoop or bend down
2. Use the fewest words eg "pick up the toys"
3. Use autoritive phrases eg.." You need to...", "it is time to...".."i need you to..."
4. Do not explain yourself or give reasons- explaining will create argument 5. When children ask why or why not it is because they want to challenge your authority.
Just say " Because I said so"- this is an affirmation of your authority as parents.
6. Walk away.Do not stick around issuing threat or give the child someone to rebel.

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